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Several times my daughter had
telephoned to say, “Mother, you must come see the daffodils before they are
over.” I wanted to go, but it was a
two-hour drive from Laguna to Lake Arrowhead. “I will come next Tuesday,” I promised, a
little reluctantly, on her third call.
Next Tuesday dawned cold and rainy.
Still, I had promised, and so I drove there. When I finally walked into Carolyn’s house
and hugged and greeted my grandchildren, I said, “Forget the daffodils,
Carolyn! The road is invisible in the
clouds and fog, and there is nothing in this world except you and these
children that I want to see bad enough to drive another inch!” My daughter smiled calmly and said, “We drive
in this all the time, Mother.” Well, you
won’t get me back on the road until it clears, and then I’m heading for home!” I assured her. “I was hoping you’d take me over to the
garage to pick up my car.” “How far will
we have to drive?” “Just a few blocks,”
Carolyn said. “I’ll drive. I’m used to this.” After several minutes, I had to ask, “Where
are we going? This isn’t the way to the
garage!” “We’re going to my garage the
long way,” Carolyn smiled, “by way of the daffodils.” “Carolyn,” I said sternly, “please turn
around.” “It’s all right, Mother, I promise.
You will never forgive yourself if you miss this experience.” After about twenty minutes, we turned into a
small gravel road and saw a small church.
On the far side of the church, I saw a hand-lettered sign that read, “Daffodil
Garden.” We got out of the car and each took a child’s
hand, and I followed Carolyn down the path.
Then, we turned a corner of the path, and I looked up and gasped. Before me lay the most glorious sight. It looked as though someone had taken a great
vat of gold and poured it down over the mountain peak and slopes. The flowers were planted in majestic,
swirling patterns… great ribbons and swaths of deep orange, white, lemon
yellow, salmon pink, saffron, and butter yellow. Each different-colored variety was planted as
a group so that it swirled and flowed like its own river with its own unique
hue. There were five acres of
flowers. “But who has done this?” I
asked Carolyn. “It’s just one woman,”
Carolyn answered. “She lives on the
property. That’s her home.” Carolyn pointed to a well kept A frame house
that looked small and modest in the midst of all that glory. We walked up to the house. On the patio, we saw a poster. “Answers to the Questions I know You Are
Asking” was the headline. The first
answer was a simple one. “50,000 bulbs,”
it read. The second answer was, “One at
a time, by one woman. Two hands, two
feet, and very little brain.” The third
answer was, “Began in 1958.” There it
was, The Daffodil Principle. For me that
moment was a life-changing experience.
I thought of this woman whom I
had never met, who, more than forty years before, had begun one bulb at a
time-to bring her vision of beauty and joy to an obscure mountain top. Still, just planting one bulb at a time, year
after year, had changed the world. This
unknown woman had forever changed the world in which she lived. She had created something of indescribable
magnificence, beauty, and inspiration.
The principle her daffodil garden
taught is one of the greatest principles of celebration. That is, learning to move toward our goals
and desires one step at a time … often just one baby-step at a time… and
learning to love the doing, learning to use the accumulation of time. When we multiply tiny pieces of time with
small increments of daily effort, we too will find we can accomplish
magnificent things. We can change the
world.
“It makes me sad in a way,” I
admitted to Carolyn. “What might I have
accomplished if I had thought of a wonderful goal thirty-five or forty years
ago, and had worked away at ‘one bulb at a time’ through all those years? Just think what I might have been able to
achieve!” My daughter summed up the
message of the day in her usual direct way.
“Start tomorrow,” she said.
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